Back in Business

Haven't been blogging for the longest time.. here goes..

So much has changed over the period of the last entree i made till today. I guess its a harsh reality of life that the society we all live in now, gives no pity or patience to anybody who chooses to slow down or take their time to do something about their own lifes. I was once in a chase, like everybody, persuing something which in my own views, is something of a milestone to mark a goal to prove to people supporting all these years that i am not a let down and to challenge myself rather than of a chase to proceed on to the next phase in life. I am talking about the chase of a paper qualification.

Now that i have finally taken a step into the working life, i realised that finding a job is not all about paper paper paper. It actually takes more than a paper. The misconception i had when i was in my younger days is that anyone without a high qualification will end up being a nobody but the somebodys out there, with a decent qualification IS a somebody in the society today, as long as the person is willing to work hard. It all voices down to the hard work and perseverance rather of the struggle to persue a paper where you do not even show the slightest intrest in. Sometimes, its an envy to me when i see people around me going through "the proper path" enjoying the "proper way of teaching and company" during their studies.. I have only myself to blame for not studying hard enough. Hee

During this while, i have made many new friends from different circles. Many of which have become personal friends not aquiantances. I learnt many lessons about improving the way of interacting with people. I had the chance to meet so many people where the amount of people i know before, actually doubled in just slightly over 2 years. It is better to be a listener than to be a person who gives comments. Speak only when you really feel that you should, silence is always golden. Singapore is so small.. I got bitten quite badly before because of some careless remarks about somebody that triggered a big hoo haa among 2 groups of friends. Everything is back on the right track now. The importance of friendship has once again showed me that new faces are easy to come by but true friendship is rare. It is through the times of ups and downs that pulls friendship so tight that no matter what happens, it will never break loose.

So much for now.. can go on and on and on but i'll stop for now...